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Sunday, May 26, 2013

"LAW OF AVERAGE."- ONE OF THE BIGGEST WORRY BUSTERS

PRACTICE MAKES A MAN PERFECT.

The Law of the Average formula is one of the biggest worry busters.
 How?
 I visited holy temples of Maa Chandi Devi & Maa Mansa Devi in Haridwar by flying cab, popularly called, ropeway. I started to enjoy the beautiful scenery below, but my wife was very much nervous. I casually informed her, “Hundreds of ropeways are operational all over the world.” Then I asked, “How many ropeway accidents are reported in newspapers?"  She thought for a while and replied,” No accident was reported in last many years.” I asked her immediately," Then why are you so nervous?" Her beautiful face beamed with a tension free smile in no time.

 The Law of average formula makes Insurance Companies earn big profits all over the world. They collect data regarding the average death from accidents or diseases. Then they price their products keeping sufficient margin. 
 They paint a gloomy picture of one's family members after death, get huge business & make big profits. However, the insurance is the need of the hour. Everybody must be insured sufficiently. However, you must give full disclosures regarding your health & family members. Otherwise, insurance companies may reject death claim on the ground of concealment of vital information & may also forfeit the premium deposited.
If you are spending sleepless nights regarding an apprehension, please ask yourself," What is the law of average regarding our anxiety to turn into reality? For example, if someone is reeling under the fear of diabetes death. Let him ask what is the total number of diabetics, and out of which how many die of diabetes. If our apprehension becomes real in one case out of 100000 cases, we are covering 0.00001% risk only & obviously there is no reason to spend sleepless nights. 
 One will be required to use the Law of Average formula repeatedly in the beginning. Gradually it will be inculcated in one's subconscious mind, and then he will be busting his apprehensions automatically by asking the question,"What is the law of average regarding this anxiety?"


Friday, May 17, 2013

USE VIBRANT VOCABULARY FOR GOLDEN FUTURE

A mafia shouts and hurls filthy abuses;" Kill," "Kidnap," "Ransom" etc. are parts of his vocabulary.
 The vocabulary of a saint is entirely different; he talks in a beautiful language." God bless you." " Beneficial to all." "Help others" etc. are part of his vocabulary.
 The poor say," We are poor because poverty is our destiny." Naturally, they remain poverty stricken till their death.

Late Dhiru Bhai Ambani was born poor, but he must have told himself," I am born poor, but I shall change my destiny. I shall become a billionaire one day." So he refused to be bound by the chains of poverty. His vocabulary & strong determination gave him indomitable strength. He worked harder & smarter to change his destiny. Consequently, he died as one of the richest Indian.


It is high time that we start identifying all the negative words we use. We must replace them with positive and powerful words. 
Also, ensure to keep negative persons at a distance to save yourself from their negativity.
 Negativity is more dangerous than dreaded cancer since cancer kills its victims altogether, but negativity converts him into a living corpse.

Wednesday, May 1, 2013

TREAT PEOPLE KINGLY.

A wise man said, "Treat people as if they were king & they will make you a real king."
 It is very strange, "We can’t give anything away at all." 
  If we love people from our hearts, they start loving us more intensely. Good-Will & Love rebounds to us after being multiplied many times; this is why Gautama Buddha, Mahatma Gandhi, Tolstoy, Abraham Lincoln, etc., will continue to be revered and worshiped forever. 
I am also relating a small incident to prove my point of view.
On the pious eve of the Festivals of Colours, Holi, I called on a good friend of mine along with other friends. My friend has a fat, fair complexioned servant of average height named Vishwanath who served us mouth watering snacks with a tangy green sauce. A little sauce spilled accidentally over my left pant. Vishwanath immediately took a piece of clean wet cloth and wiped away the sauce with great care and plenty of smiles.
 He could have simply given the cloth in my hands, but he took pains to do the cleaning himself happily with all care. He apparently impressed me much with his positive behavior. You must not expect any prize for guessing what shall I do if Vishwanath comes to me for any favor.

Shower love, regard, good-will and friendliness, wherever you go.
 Love people and wish them the best and choicest things from the core of your hearts.
 Give them the best treatment with utmost care and comfort.
 Stop finding faults on trivials.
 Appreciate people's good works and good virtues.
 Help them in need.
 Sympathize with them in their hardships. 

You will become their darling, and they start treating you like a king.